Are you sure she wasn't just trying to kill you? HAHAHA! Dickstein-Barr sounds like something you'd get from Roseanne.
As long as she didn't blow any saliva into his peephole, he should be fine, but getting in there with a bottle brush would be a good idea.
Giving it a good scrub with some steel wool would also do the trick
Chop off the penis before it spreads to the heart!